The only way that any of us can experience the world is through the model that our brain makes of the world. We build the model and live within it. Yet we ACT as though the world is solid and “out there,” happening TO us.
This is the basis of all the work that I do. The starting point. The foundational principle. And if and when you see this, you really GET this, your life will change.
When the Game is Up
Some spiritual teachers have called this “The Cosmic Joke.” We spend our whole lives trying to change our circumstances, to change the people around us, to change our bodies or appearances or bank accounts.
All in an effort to feel better about ourselves. To feel stronger or more loved or more powerful.
When actually, we are the ones creating everything. Even if this process is all but invisible to us.
I got my first glimpse of this in 2007 when I was sitting in meditation. It suddenly occurred to me, like a little thought bubble popping over my head, that this present moment is all that ever is. That everything else, the past, the future, my stories about both of those and my stories about myself and the world, I was making up in this present moment.
I laughed.
And I went back to living in the reality that I was creating. Just a little bit wiser for the experience.
But every few years since I have had another thought bubble pop. More and more I am able to witness myself creating the world that I live in.
The Irrefutable Truth of How Our Brains Work
Your experience (and mine) is comprised of three things—
Sensory data—whatever your brains tell you about the things you see, hear, smell, taste, touch.
Your physiological state—calm or triggered, to name two of many possibilities.
The STORIES you tell yourself about what inputs mean.
Your brain is building a model of the world in real time and living in that model. And the vast majority of us think that model is not only real, but the one right and solid reality.
Over the next few weeks I am going to explore some of the implications of this fundamental truth.
But if you know you are up for a deeper exploration of this (in a way that will change your leadership and your life), I have two ways you can do that—
First as a two day one-on-one retreat.
Second as a group event in Denver on October 20-21.
If either of these appeal to you, like this post (so more people will see it) and send me a DM.